Q: Hi I would like to ask you, how can I get my wife to partake in a threesome. she mentioned it about three years ago but haven’t brought it up since, now I am ready, how do I bring it back up? ~Dre~
A: Greetings,
A good way to bring the subject back up would be to rent a movie that deals with the subject. And no, I don't mean a porno! *Smile* Once you rent and watch this movie together, you can strike up a conversation about the subject. Then you can probe to see if she is still interested. I must note that three years is a long time to have waited. For a woman, she could have changed in leaps and bounds by then and may have drifted far from the idea of a threesome by now. This is just a heads up to you. So don't be too disappointed if she has changed her mind. I know there are plenty of things I would have done three years ago that I wouldn't consider now. *Wink*
You can check out:
Trois
Trois 2: Pandora's Box
Trois 3: The Escort
Threesome
The movie I also STRONGLY recommend that you rent is.... actually rent this movie first!
The Sex Monster
Another way would be to bring it up while you are in bed at night. I'm not sure what your relationship is like but some couples have conversations with each other in the dark as they are laying in bed before they fall asleep. If this is the case with your relationship, that is another good time to bring something like that up. I am also a little concerned because a Threesome is a very big deal if you do not have a relationship where you can talk freely to each other about things.
What I mean by that is, if you can't just come out and strike up a conversation with your wife about sleeping with another woman and/or man, then you are walking a tight rope and there are dangers all around this situation because of this. Most couples who successfully practice threesomes or group sex, are very open people and talk with each other comfortably about sex and the like. So if you do not have this type of relationship, please understand that there are dangers here.
Sincerely,
Tressa!
A good way to bring the subject back up would be to rent a movie that deals with the subject. And no, I don't mean a porno! *Smile* Once you rent and watch this movie together, you can strike up a conversation about the subject. Then you can probe to see if she is still interested. I must note that three years is a long time to have waited. For a woman, she could have changed in leaps and bounds by then and may have drifted far from the idea of a threesome by now. This is just a heads up to you. So don't be too disappointed if she has changed her mind. I know there are plenty of things I would have done three years ago that I wouldn't consider now. *Wink*
You can check out:
Trois
Trois 2: Pandora's Box
Trois 3: The Escort
Threesome
The movie I also STRONGLY recommend that you rent is.... actually rent this movie first!
The Sex Monster
Another way would be to bring it up while you are in bed at night. I'm not sure what your relationship is like but some couples have conversations with each other in the dark as they are laying in bed before they fall asleep. If this is the case with your relationship, that is another good time to bring something like that up. I am also a little concerned because a Threesome is a very big deal if you do not have a relationship where you can talk freely to each other about things.
What I mean by that is, if you can't just come out and strike up a conversation with your wife about sleeping with another woman and/or man, then you are walking a tight rope and there are dangers all around this situation because of this. Most couples who successfully practice threesomes or group sex, are very open people and talk with each other comfortably about sex and the like. So if you do not have this type of relationship, please understand that there are dangers here.
Sincerely,
Tressa!
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